it’s been a while since i’ve said this but

i think it’s important to remember how big of a difference there is between saying

"i hate people who ___________"

andย 

"I hate when people ___________"

***

negativity in your speech really affects your way of thinking

August 31, 2014     14 notes

Anonymous writes,

I don't know actually I stopped after season 1 ended

I don’t think I’ll ever watch again but I know a lot of people live

August 31, 2014

Anonymous writes,

Do you still use lorde? (Just in general... I don't think she did anything recently)

Her little album is good and shit

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

Revenge is too slow for me I was expecting her to murder them evil white people but she does other stuff instead ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Yeah! Well, it starts at the beginning after showing you the end, right?

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

Have you ever watched this show called "revenge"? I just started today and these white folk is crazy as hell.

Denzell had me watching that and I never got into it as a whole but I did get a few ounces of life

August 31, 2014     2 notes

Anonymous writes,

I mean it was to emphasize my point. Black fathers can be like free spirited accepting or like the type to force masculinity on their sons because they are raised to be macho and shit. My point was it isn't always that way. It's G though.

I mean, they’re humans, so yeah I’m sure they can encompass any number of different “types” and even—dare I say it—multiple “types” at once!

Imagine: A black man who is free spirited but NOT accepting AND the type to force masculinity on his son! And maybe he even has other personality attributes! The possibilities are endless! Go figure! It’s like the Build-A-Black Workshop!ย 

A lot of people would see a black man or have a baby by a black man and expect him, because of his skin or his socioeconomic status, to be a homophobe. How often do we just assume that of our white interlocutors and romantic interests?

August 31, 2014     4 notes

Anonymous writes,

Those weren't Queens, they were your enemies........ WHITE WOMEN.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOO SO YOU GON’ SEND ME THIS ONSLAUGHT OF BECKIESย 

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

The point of the convo was to acknowledge that black homophobia does exist but no more than homophobia itself. You started talking about it's a myth and that other bullshit. And even though you didn't coin the phrase don't mean you should spend it .

I didn’t like your emphasis on “hood ass baby father” and “blunts” and such and you didn’t like me using the phrase “myth” as it was intended in that context

Glad we’re on the same pageย 

Anything else?ย 

August 31, 2014     2 notes

Anonymous writes,

You get'em, boo!

Haha I willย 

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

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Queen shitttttt

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

Do you still use jhene aiko after the ferguson tweet

I’m not surprised that she’d be on that “positivity” bullshit, but I use her less. But I never used her outside of her music anywayย 

August 31, 2014     2 notes

Anonymous writes,

I bought it to your inbox to start a conversation about the stereotypes s8black men face BECAUSE of black homophobia. And I didn't just decide to have a baby with him it just happened unless you conception is also a myth or Myth is you will.

Yep conception is a myth and a Myth tooย 

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

So you, as a Gay Black Man, have never been on the receiving end of Black Homophobia??

Of course I have and I’ll put you to the task of finding where I said I hadn’t…

August 31, 2014     1 note

Anonymous writes,

I can understand why she would assume that a guy, who is probably into stereotypically manly things is homophobia... I really can understand that. But, I CAN'T understand how she didn't know her soon to be Baby-father wasn't homophobia...... like.

I mean, if she wanted me to jump up from my seat and say “OMG YOU FOUND A BLACK GUY WHO’S NOT HOMOPHOBIC!!!!! I DIDN’T KNOW THEY EXISTED OMG OMG WOW YAY FOR HIM, AS A MEMBER OF THE INTOLERANT NEGROID RACE, BEING ACCEPTING” then I’m sorry to disappoint.ย 

August 31, 2014     2 notes

Anonymous writes,

I was rocking with you up until you called homophobia in the black community a myth or Myth. That's erasure. Far too many queer black youths are being attacked and having to live in secret of who they are.

Look. It. Up.

I did not coin the phrase.

And the phrase was made because, as happens with the phrase “black-on-black crime,” there is a MYTH that BLACK PEOPLE are MORE HOMOPHOBIC and THAT is what EYE was referring to and EYE provided GROUNDS for that reference. So if you don’t like it, take it up with those that coined the phrase.ย 

I NEVER said black people are never homophobic but I am FAR from the only person on Tumblr who thinks it is BULLSHIT that black people deserve being profiled, as your fellow anon did, as homophobic because there is a. Myth. Of. Black. Homophobia.

Y’all have a habit of being insular on Tumblr but I swear when you log out or go to another tab, GOOGLE DOES STILL EXIST.ย 

August 31, 2014     19 notes
sweet theme, bro.